Maths will explain disappointment in relationships
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Here is what I thought, friends:
People love to believe in the myth of their “other halves”. So what does that make them – walking around at nought point five, walking about the world looking for others just as incomplete, just as half.
When they “come up” to each other to “stand” side by side, they can feel like a whole one for a moment. But only for a moment.
But standing side by side is not living together.
When they start living together, it is not even ADDITION, it turns into MULTIPLICATION by each other.
People, becoming a couple, living through their meetings day after day, repeat themselves as a couple, now not only in Space but in Time – again and again.
Again and again, and that is CLOSENESS raised to a power.
And then it is no wonder that in the modern world there are so many divorces:
That is, “incomplete people”, those who are at 0.5, become even less in a relationship. Let’s see how maths would write it:
0.5 x 0.5 = 0.25
If you have not become ONE, you will only lose in a relationship.
Conclusion:
A PERSON must absolutely not look for their other half before HE becomes at least Whole.
And once he does – he won’t have to look at all.
The WHOLE is doomed to meet its own kind, with no risk of loss.
We humans are doomed to meet only our own mirrors: halves meet halves, and wholes meet wholes.
There is one more annoying property of “halves”, besides washing out the energy of the whole: they often think that they are Whole – and that is their most unpleasant quality.
The whole differs from halves simply: the half consumes the world, while the whole gives birth to worlds.
And everyone’s opinion of themselves, without any finished deeds to show for it, is not worth much. A person’s deeds speak for their makers on their own.
Happiness to you in your relationships and with yourself.
Natalia Valitskaya.
